So I have made this blog private. This blog has been going since 2005 that’s quite a long time. Passwords will be given out shortly to family.

I have been through the whole mummy blogging ring and never once had any issues thankfully. But the display of childish behaviour from some have made me re-think how I share my life on the internet. And how when you think you know and trust some you actually can’t.  You should think before you tweet/comment on things just because you’re sitting behind your safe little computer doesn’t make it OK I liken these people to those who have road rage, those who go off because they are in the safety of their car. Had they been face to face I am sure things would be said differently. Or perhaps not at all.

I have decided to have full control over the content so most of the blog posts now will be about photography and travel and my obsession with buying expensive children’s clothes, and traveling. And of course the odd review here and there as I am a lego duplo expert and I really enjoy my role doing that.

As one of my friends pointed out there are 7 billion people in the world and not to let one ruin my day.

I know many people enjoy my blog and I am really grateful I know you’re not reading to learn grammar & correct spellings. Which is probably a good thing as I am quite obviously shit at it And I think that I need to blog it’s part of me and my generation I can’t not do it. I just need to be more selective with who gets to read what.

But when I feel the desire to share my kids achievements or troubles then I will do, privately and those suffering from tall poppy syndrome can fuck right off.

Have a nice day

I’ve made a spelling mistake in my blog post – the spelling bee police popped by

I would correct it, but I am to busy giving myself 50 lashes 

Apparently I take myself seriously. I think anyone who makes such a comment clearly doesn’t know me or my blog at all. THANK GOD LOL

My son, where do I start with my baby boy, my bundle of baby that arrived in my weak arms 3.5 years ago

3.5 years on Jerry is quite possibley one of the slightest children you will meet for his age.

(oh and my husband is a fantastic birth photographer)

People often think he is younger until he starts talking.

I, unlike Eliza at this age. Am unsure of Jerry’s abilities. Eliza showed skills in various areas from a very young age, having a 1st child who shows gifts in some areas makes the 2nd a bit of a mystery.

Seriously though Jerry is very intelligent like me he likes to keep this fact a secret (I was excepted into Mensa some years ago but really I think I only just got in) Although the husbands intelligence is way, way higher than mine a fact he frequently likes to point out

He is very sporty the husband and I are both, sorry USE TO BE very sporty I ADORED running & swimming and did both competitively the husband was gifted in football and other things I forget (we’ve been together a long time)

Jerry is highly strung like myself he worries like me about almost everything. He will give everything a go though and doesn’t care if he is crap at it he keeps trying until he’s fabulous at it ( the husband)

Jerry wears his heart on his sleeve like me,

When your 1st child goes to school it’s quite the huge occasion. When the 2nd starts pre-school you get a whole bunch of new emotions.

BUT one thing you must never do is compare you children and their reactions or abilties

we are all different people, our children are PEOPLE not just kids they are their own little persons and we must enjoy, understand, treasure and nourish what they have and what ever their abilities are.

For now J man is emotionally a very little boy who needs many, many cuddles and  I am here to give them.

Love you J man

My heart aches when I see you cry, my heart aches when I see you soar – My heart aches because I don’t think I could love more than I do.